Psychologically, the choice “to think or not” is the choice “to focus or not.” Existentially, the choice “to focus or not” is the choice “to be conscious or not.” Metaphysically, the choice “to be conscious or not” is the choice of "life or death".
Life is neither easy nor beautiful. You have to make it easy and beautiful by your own Actions/Thoughts/Character/Intelligence/Wisdom/Brainwashing capability/Manipulating capacity. Never compromise on your Dreams/Goals/Desires/Wishes for the sake of others because that in turn means compromising your LIFE. Be the KING and also MINISTER of your life.
Intelligence, Capability, Ability are no way related to gender. A girl can become an author, writer, scientist, pilot, police, teacher and what not. But the extra attribute which is associated with a girl and which is very fascinating is her BEAUTY. I respect/love/hate/admire/fascinate a girl for that beauty. Despite of that, I don't bother about gender when having conversation or in a relationship.
Heart is only used for pumping blood in an organ/living being. It has nothing to do feelings/emotions. Manasu is imaginary concept which don't have any connection with feelings/emotions. The origin for Thought/Feeling/Emotion is one and only MIND only. Putting my heart and soul, heartful feeling these are bullshit statements as all those are only related to MIND nothing else. Let the heart do it's work of pumping blood and don't involve it in expression of an emotion.